SPIDER

Many people in the world like to take care of animal, like dog, cat, birds, fish and many more. We can learn a good or positive character from animals, example:

If we see ant, we can learn about team work, cause ant always work in team.

And if we see Lion, we can see symbol of power, leader, king of the jungle.

I want to share about the other animal, maybe many people don’t like this animal. Included me.

But after I hear and learn more about this animal, I get something special, a good character and motivate my self to learn from this animal.

The name is SPIDER, maybe for us the hero Spiderman more famous than spider it self.

In their living, male spider is smaller than female. Because of that after they have intercourse, the female will soon eat the male. To protect him self, the male will distracting the female’s focus by giving the others victim to her other wise male will hold her and bind with silk thread when they intercourse.

After the intercourse process over, male must go fast as soon as possible to avoid from female, if he late female will eat him

In our live, we know that ISTI CLUB for husband. Maybe in spider living they have the same club,ISTI.

In 1306, Robert the Bruce and his army had been fighting against King Edward I of England for control of Scotland. Robert was lying exhausted in a barn when he noticed a spider try to fix its web to a beam six times. On its seventh attempt, the spider succeeded. Robert was inspired, saying,

"Now shall this spider teach me what I am to do, for I also have failed six times."

He then gathered together some more followers and they won the next battle. After a successful campaign they eventually defeated Edward's army in 1319.

Spider is an animal who is not easy to give up.

If they meet troubles, they will wake up and continue their life

Before they die, spider never stops to work and produce something

Please imagine, if you go to the garden and you see a web in the tree

And then you destroy the web, after that you back home.

Tomorrow when you come to the same tree, what will you see ?

The web is still at the same place

Why ?

Because it’s a character of spider. Never give up, don’t care, how many troubles comes

They will strive for their life

And we never hear that spider suicide, cause frustrated, cause somebody destroy its web. The web will still in the place, except you kill the spider.

Different condition with human, many people suicide cause fail, bankrupt,

They think they don’t have hope any more

And they choose a shortcut, suicide. It’s easy but that is a big mistake.

Problem comes to our life to make us wise, mature and stronger.

If we never find a problem or we always run from the problem we will never growth.

After we pass the problem we will more strength than before.

All of us have problems, small or big problems. Don’t worry.

The important point is no matter how many times you fail but how many times you face your failure and try to go on

Like a spider, never give up, strive for excellence even though there many barriers in the future.

As God give us chance to live, there is always chance to better life.

The Power of Dream

If I sad the Power of Dream, what will we remind, and the statement of what the power of dream?

Yes, we will things about Honda. The company who always create a new and high quality product. I’m not in promotion Honda today. But I just want to share how dream can make a difference and the power of dream will motivated us to achieve more and more.

Many people in the world ever have dream when they slept. Indonesian people say,dream is a flower of sleep. In the reality, dream it’s not only come when we sleep. But when we in a good condition we must thing about our dream, what we will achieve in our future.

There are the difference condition, between dream when we sleep and dream when we in a good condition. When we sleep, we cannot control our dream, but when we in a good condition we will control our dream. Dream is a target that we want to achieve in our life.

All of success people understand about the power of dream. They can be succeed in the world, they achieve or they create something special and high quality product or something because they have power of dream.

Who is in our class today, didn’t know or never heard Thomas Alva Edison. Who is he?

He is a big creator who found lamp. You know how many times he try to create a lamp before he succeed? More than fifty times, maybe near to 100 times. As I share two weeks ago many people frustrated because they fail in business. And they give up.

Look Thomas Alva Edison, almost 100 times fail but he still high motivation to create lamp. What is the secret behind that? Because Thomas have a dream, he aware lamp is important to people live in this world. If he don’t have the power of dream maybe he will give up when he didn’t find lamp in a 10 times.

People who have dream will have hope, Hope will lead us to purpose. From purpose we will make plan or strategy to achieve. After that take action, and the last your dream will come true.

I give the example,

I have a dream one day I will speech for 2000 people and motivate all of them.

My dream give me hope, that I can achieve that.

Hope guide me to the purpose, the purpose of my dream is to help and improve people.

Because of that I need plan and strategy how can I go there.

I need action, you know I join in toastmaster is a part of my strategy to prepare my self.

Right now I’m in a journey to achieve my dream.

How about you ?

Are you have a dream?

If you don’t have, I suggest you to things about that.

We have better life today, its because people who have dream.

If they don’t have dream, maybe until now we never communicate with handphone, fly with plane, watching TV and we still in the darkness.

God give for us talent. Everyone of us have a difference talent, but we have the some purpose in the world. That to make a better life.

Just dream and action.

Believe me, your dream will make a positive things for the world.

Because dream have a power.

The Power of Dream.

Dedy and John C.Maxwell

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Dedy Budiman